Margaret Alice Parmer

Margaret Alice Parmer, more commonly known as Margy, was Born Sept 1, 1871. The Civil War had ended five years previously. In 1871, the Franco-Prussian war ended, The Great Chicago Fire devastated thousands, Jesse James robbed banks, and major league baseball started. Also in 1871, some of the first pictures of Yellowstone Park were taken. Perhaps Samuel and Hetty saw some of those photos, never imagining that their newly born daughter would one day be connected to the park.

Margy was the third child of Samuel and Hetty Parmer. At the time of the 1880 Census, Margy was 8 years old. The census indicates she had attended school that year. The Census was taken in June 1880. Her father, Samuel, is shown in the census with an occupation of “laborer.” Her oldest brother, John, was boarding at a Farm not too far away, and not too far from the grandparents, John and Martha Parmer. The second oldest child, William, who was 10 years old, was living at home. Margy’s next older sibling had died 3.5 years previous to the census. Also living at home when the census was taken was Samuel at 4 years old, Annie at 2 years old, and Harry at 9 months old . Margaret’s mother, Hetty, would give birth to another child in one month.

With a houseful, no doubt there was plenty that needed done, and Margie, at 8 years old and the oldest daughter, likely had plenty of chores and babysitting duties to keep her busy when not in school. Of course school was quite different then as noted in my post about John Jacob Parmer’s Youth. The 1880 census is of East Lampeter, and it’s interesting that the census does not list any street names. We do have the map showing the location of John and Martha’s property, which you can see at my post about John Jacob Parmer’s Youth.

As is typical for the time period, there are very few records other than a census for the time of a person’s youth until they get married. The marriage license for Margie is similar to that of her siblings, as discussed in my previous post about Marriages, the Minister, and the Church. She was married 5 Sept 1889 by D.W. Gerhard at 131 South Duke St. There’s more info about Rev Gerhard and a video of South Duke St at my previous post, Marriages, the Minister, and the Church. She would have been 18 years old and Abraham, who was 12 years older than her, was 29 years old according to the marriage license. He was occupied as a teamster.

Abraham Rote and Margie Parmer marriage announcement 11 Sep 1889, Wed Lancaster Examiner and The Semi-Weekly New Era (Lancaster, Pennsylvania) Newspapers.com

1890 city directory shows Margie is employed as a millhand and living in Rockland near Old Factory, which is where her father lived. As a millhand, she probably worked in a factory related to textiles. The City of Lancaster’s largest employer in 1880 was the Conestoga Steam Cotton Mills. A nice article about the Mills can be found at https://lifewithldub.blogspot.com/2016/03/the-fabric-of-lancaster-part-i-story.html. You can learn more about textile manufacturing at https://philadelphiaencyclopedia.org/essays/textile-manufacturing-and-textile-workers/. This article focuses on the Philadelphia area, but has a lot of good information, photos, and links for additional resources.

In 1900, we find Margie, living in West Lampeter, married to Abraham Rote and with 5 children: Ester–age 10, Della–age 8, Charles–age 7, Maud–age 6, and Carrie–age 4. Also living at the home is Margie’s brother Harry–age 21, who is listed as a servant. One other individual, 14 year old A[rom] Farrel (the spelling of the first name is difficult to make out), who is listed as a farm laborer and who had been in school for 5 months and was non employed for 5 months (likely while in school), which means he was at 14 years old fully employed when not in school. The younger children had been in school for 7.5 months.

Some time before 1913, Margie and Abraham moved their family West to West Yellowstone, MT. There Abraham worked at and/or managed the Bar N Ranch. We know he was there before 1913 because Margie’s brother John Jacob Parmer and his family succeeded the Rote family in managing the Ranch, and John Jacob Parmer took over that job on June 1, 1913. The Bar N Ranch was mostly used for hay freighted into Yellowstone National Park for the work and stage horses.

Perhaps the Rotes left the Bar N Ranch to start a homestead of their own. A homestead of 160 acres was proved and ownership transferred to Abraham on April 5, 1916. You can see the related documents at the BLM website. As you explore the homestead records, you see many names of the Parmers and Rotes relatives–Battle, Fuller, Gorman, Hutchison, Murray, Rightenour, and Tibbles–who the Parmer’s and Rote’s children married.

Certainly life there in the winter was difficult. It’s possible that they left the area in the winter and returned in the Spring. We next find the family in the 1920 Census.

The 1920 Census shows them living in Ashton, Idaho. Abraham is 60 years old and Margie is 48 years old. They were living with their daughter, Maud, and son in law William R. Hutchinson, and 2 year old granddaughter Vonda.

Margie died Nov 27, 1926 of pneumonia at 55 years old, myocarditis contributing. She had lived at 530 Montana Ave, Bozeman, MT for five years according to her death certificate.

Margie Alice Rote death announcement BozemanArticle from 03 Dec 1926, Fri The Bozeman Courier (Bozeman, Montana)

Margie Alice Rote Death Announcement 06 Dec 1926, Mon Lancaster New Era (Lancaster, Pennsylvania) Newspapers.com

Abraham died of a strep infection on Feb 3 , 1933. He was living with his daughter Carrie Rote Fuller at 209 S 7th, Bozeman, MT. He was 73 years old and is listed as being a rancher.

Some of their posterity continued to live in the West Yellowstone area for many years. Others moved to other parts of Montana and to other areas of the country.

Parmer Siblings

Children of Samuel M. Parmer and Hetty Eckman: Siblings, below, clockwise from top left: John Jacob Parmer, Luther James Parmer, Samuel Elwood Parmer, Aldus Arthur Parmer, Margaret Alice Parmer Rote, William Eckman Parmer. Siblings not pictured: Martha Parmer (died in childhood 1877), Annie E. Parmer, Harry Allen Parmer.

Gray-Eyed Aldus Parmer

Aldus made his entry into this world on November 28, 1880. That was a Sunday and just 3 days after Thanksgiving day. He arrived into Samuel and Hetty’s home with 6 living siblings. One sister, Martha, had previously died in 1877 at 3 years of age. The oldest sibling, John Jacob was 13 years old. His mother, Hetty, must have been very busy because her two youngest children at the time were not very old–Annie was not quite three years old and Harry had recently turned one year old. Samuel was five, Margaret was nine, and William was eleven.

A new baby brings lots of joy, and, as every new mother knows, a lot of exhaustion and sleepless nights. I’m sure the children had chores and helped out. Still, cooking and cleaning were a whole lot different then. There were no refrigerators for home use yet–that wouldn’t be for about another 25 years–but the home may have had an icebox. The stove would likely have been a cast iron or steel stove that burned wood or coal (Source). And doing laundry? That was a lot of work. A pail of water, a plunger, and a washboard were the common implements, along with homemade lye soap, which was quite a process to make too (Source).

In 1918, according to the draft registration card, Aldus had black hair and gray eyes. The gray eyes is interesting. I was born with dark brown eyes and had dark brown eyes for many years. Somewhere along the line, my eyes have changed color and are now more hazel. I wonder when Aldus’ eyes became “grey.” He’s also shown as medium height and slender build at registration.

The WWII draft registration card is more specific. Aldus is included in the April 1942 “Old Man’s Registration.” This draft was the Fourth Registration and was for men ages 45-64 who were not already serving in the military. At that time, he was 61 years old, standing 5’5″ tall, weighing in at 190 pounds, and had gray hair and, still, gray eyes. He also has a scar on the end of the index finger on his left hand.

WWII draft registration card. Image from “United States World War II Draft Registration Cards, 1942,” database with images, FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:VQNQ-M82 : 14 March 2020), Aldws Arthur Parmer, 1942; citing NARA microfilm publication M1936, M1937, M1939, M1951, M1962, M1964, M1986, M2090, and M2097 (Washington D.C.: National Archives and Records Administration, n.d.).

So it appears that Aldus grew up with black hair and gray eyes. Tragically, when he was 16 1/2 years old, his mother died. We don’t have any information regarding her death in 1897. If mothers were as central to their children’s lives then as they are now, I imagine that had a profound affect upon Aldus.

What was life like for Aldus after his mother died? We’ll take a looks at his life in the next few posts.

Samuel, Son of Samuel

Samuel E. Parmer was born August 22, 1874.  That’s what his death certificate says, as well as his headstone.  Some records indicate he may have been born in 1875.  It’s so hard to pinpoint birthdays for that time period!  I’m going with 1874.  His marriage certificate says he was born in Mount Sidney, East Lampeter.

Samuel E. is the fifth child of Samuel M. and Hetty Ann.  His brother John Jacob was 7 years old while his sister Martha was just 10 months old.  William would have been almost 5 and Margie almost 3 years old.  Hetty was a busy mother!

Undoubtedly named after his father, Samuel M., Samuel E’s middle name is Elwood, as shown on his World War I draft registration card, which interestingly lists his birthday as 1873.  In 1918 when the card was completed, he was medium height, medium build, with blue eyes and black hair.

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More posts on Samuel E. are coming.  Do you know anything about Samuel E. Parmer?  If so, please share in the comments or the Contact page.  We would really like to get to know him!

Samuel and Hetty’s children

 

It’s fitting for my first post to be about Samuel and Hetty.  As I began my quest to find living Parmer relatives in Lancaster, PA, my starting point was Samuel Parmer  and Hetty Eckman.  Nine children were born to them in Lancaster.  Surely some descendants would still be living there.

The 1870 census excerpt below, from Ancestry.com, is the first census record showing Samuel and Hetty together.  Their sons, John and William are also shown.

1870 Census Samuel and Hetty cropped

By 1880, John was living as a boarder down the street from the rest of the family.  William still lived at home, along with Margie, Annie, Samuel and Harry, shown in the 1880 Census excerpt below, from Ancestry.com.  Missing is Martha S., born in 1873, after the 1870 census.  She died in 1877, before the 1880 census.

1880 Census Samuel and Hetty cropped

Samuel and Hetty had two more children, Aldus and Luther.  Aldus was born in 1880 after the census was taken.  Luther was born in 1885.  They would have shown up on the 1890 census, but much of that census record was destroyed in a fire.  Aldus married in 1899, before the 1900 census, so he again is not shown living with Samuel.  But the 1900 census does show Luther living with Samuel, as seen in the excerpt below, taken from Ancestry.com.

1900 Census Samuel Parmer

With Samuel and Hetty’s children identified, I began my quest.  Little did I know that finding living relatives is a bit more difficult than finding those who have already passed on.