Margaret Alice Parmer

Margaret Alice Parmer, more commonly known as Margy, was Born Sept 1, 1871. The Civil War had ended five years previously. In 1871, the Franco-Prussian war ended, The Great Chicago Fire devastated thousands, Jesse James robbed banks, and major league baseball started. Also in 1871, some of the first pictures of Yellowstone Park were taken. Perhaps Samuel and Hetty saw some of those photos, never imagining that their newly born daughter would one day be connected to the park.

Margy was the third child of Samuel and Hetty Parmer. At the time of the 1880 Census, Margy was 8 years old. The census indicates she had attended school that year. The Census was taken in June 1880. Her father, Samuel, is shown in the census with an occupation of “laborer.” Her oldest brother, John, was boarding at a Farm not too far away, and not too far from the grandparents, John and Martha Parmer. The second oldest child, William, who was 10 years old, was living at home. Margy’s next older sibling had died 3.5 years previous to the census. Also living at home when the census was taken was Samuel at 4 years old, Annie at 2 years old, and Harry at 9 months old . Margaret’s mother, Hetty, would give birth to another child in one month.

With a houseful, no doubt there was plenty that needed done, and Margie, at 8 years old and the oldest daughter, likely had plenty of chores and babysitting duties to keep her busy when not in school. Of course school was quite different then as noted in my post about John Jacob Parmer’s Youth. The 1880 census is of East Lampeter, and it’s interesting that the census does not list any street names. We do have the map showing the location of John and Martha’s property, which you can see at my post about John Jacob Parmer’s Youth.

As is typical for the time period, there are very few records other than a census for the time of a person’s youth until they get married. The marriage license for Margie is similar to that of her siblings, as discussed in my previous post about Marriages, the Minister, and the Church. She was married 5 Sept 1889 by D.W. Gerhard at 131 South Duke St. There’s more info about Rev Gerhard and a video of South Duke St at my previous post, Marriages, the Minister, and the Church. She would have been 18 years old and Abraham, who was 12 years older than her, was 29 years old according to the marriage license. He was occupied as a teamster.

Abraham Rote and Margie Parmer marriage announcement 11 Sep 1889, Wed Lancaster Examiner and The Semi-Weekly New Era (Lancaster, Pennsylvania) Newspapers.com

1890 city directory shows Margie is employed as a millhand and living in Rockland near Old Factory, which is where her father lived. As a millhand, she probably worked in a factory related to textiles. The City of Lancaster’s largest employer in 1880 was the Conestoga Steam Cotton Mills. A nice article about the Mills can be found at https://lifewithldub.blogspot.com/2016/03/the-fabric-of-lancaster-part-i-story.html. You can learn more about textile manufacturing at https://philadelphiaencyclopedia.org/essays/textile-manufacturing-and-textile-workers/. This article focuses on the Philadelphia area, but has a lot of good information, photos, and links for additional resources.

In 1900, we find Margie, living in West Lampeter, married to Abraham Rote and with 5 children: Ester–age 10, Della–age 8, Charles–age 7, Maud–age 6, and Carrie–age 4. Also living at the home is Margie’s brother Harry–age 21, who is listed as a servant. One other individual, 14 year old A[rom] Farrel (the spelling of the first name is difficult to make out), who is listed as a farm laborer and who had been in school for 5 months and was non employed for 5 months (likely while in school), which means he was at 14 years old fully employed when not in school. The younger children had been in school for 7.5 months.

Some time before 1913, Margie and Abraham moved their family West to West Yellowstone, MT. There Abraham worked at and/or managed the Bar N Ranch. We know he was there before 1913 because Margie’s brother John Jacob Parmer and his family succeeded the Rote family in managing the Ranch, and John Jacob Parmer took over that job on June 1, 1913. The Bar N Ranch was mostly used for hay freighted into Yellowstone National Park for the work and stage horses.

Perhaps the Rotes left the Bar N Ranch to start a homestead of their own. A homestead of 160 acres was proved and ownership transferred to Abraham on April 5, 1916. You can see the related documents at the BLM website. As you explore the homestead records, you see many names of the Parmers and Rotes relatives–Battle, Fuller, Gorman, Hutchison, Murray, Rightenour, and Tibbles–who the Parmer’s and Rote’s children married.

Certainly life there in the winter was difficult. It’s possible that they left the area in the winter and returned in the Spring. We next find the family in the 1920 Census.

The 1920 Census shows them living in Ashton, Idaho. Abraham is 60 years old and Margie is 48 years old. They were living with their daughter, Maud, and son in law William R. Hutchinson, and 2 year old granddaughter Vonda.

Margie died Nov 27, 1926 of pneumonia at 55 years old, myocarditis contributing. She had lived at 530 Montana Ave, Bozeman, MT for five years according to her death certificate.

Margie Alice Rote death announcement BozemanArticle from 03 Dec 1926, Fri The Bozeman Courier (Bozeman, Montana)

Margie Alice Rote Death Announcement 06 Dec 1926, Mon Lancaster New Era (Lancaster, Pennsylvania) Newspapers.com

Abraham died of a strep infection on Feb 3 , 1933. He was living with his daughter Carrie Rote Fuller at 209 S 7th, Bozeman, MT. He was 73 years old and is listed as being a rancher.

Some of their posterity continued to live in the West Yellowstone area for many years. Others moved to other parts of Montana and to other areas of the country.

Parmer Siblings

Children of Samuel M. Parmer and Hetty Eckman: Siblings, below, clockwise from top left: John Jacob Parmer, Luther James Parmer, Samuel Elwood Parmer, Aldus Arthur Parmer, Margaret Alice Parmer Rote, William Eckman Parmer. Siblings not pictured: Martha Parmer (died in childhood 1877), Annie E. Parmer, Harry Allen Parmer.

Gray-Eyed Aldus Parmer

Aldus made his entry into this world on November 28, 1880. That was a Sunday and just 3 days after Thanksgiving day. He arrived into Samuel and Hetty’s home with 6 living siblings. One sister, Martha, had previously died in 1877 at 3 years of age. The oldest sibling, John Jacob was 13 years old. His mother, Hetty, must have been very busy because her two youngest children at the time were not very old–Annie was not quite three years old and Harry had recently turned one year old. Samuel was five, Margaret was nine, and William was eleven.

A new baby brings lots of joy, and, as every new mother knows, a lot of exhaustion and sleepless nights. I’m sure the children had chores and helped out. Still, cooking and cleaning were a whole lot different then. There were no refrigerators for home use yet–that wouldn’t be for about another 25 years–but the home may have had an icebox. The stove would likely have been a cast iron or steel stove that burned wood or coal (Source). And doing laundry? That was a lot of work. A pail of water, a plunger, and a washboard were the common implements, along with homemade lye soap, which was quite a process to make too (Source).

In 1918, according to the draft registration card, Aldus had black hair and gray eyes. The gray eyes is interesting. I was born with dark brown eyes and had dark brown eyes for many years. Somewhere along the line, my eyes have changed color and are now more hazel. I wonder when Aldus’ eyes became “grey.” He’s also shown as medium height and slender build at registration.

The WWII draft registration card is more specific. Aldus is included in the April 1942 “Old Man’s Registration.” This draft was the Fourth Registration and was for men ages 45-64 who were not already serving in the military. At that time, he was 61 years old, standing 5’5″ tall, weighing in at 190 pounds, and had gray hair and, still, gray eyes. He also has a scar on the end of the index finger on his left hand.

WWII draft registration card. Image from “United States World War II Draft Registration Cards, 1942,” database with images, FamilySearch (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:VQNQ-M82 : 14 March 2020), Aldws Arthur Parmer, 1942; citing NARA microfilm publication M1936, M1937, M1939, M1951, M1962, M1964, M1986, M2090, and M2097 (Washington D.C.: National Archives and Records Administration, n.d.).

So it appears that Aldus grew up with black hair and gray eyes. Tragically, when he was 16 1/2 years old, his mother died. We don’t have any information regarding her death in 1897. If mothers were as central to their children’s lives then as they are now, I imagine that had a profound affect upon Aldus.

What was life like for Aldus after his mother died? We’ll take a looks at his life in the next few posts.

A Week About Annie–Home And Children

So what did we learn about Annie?  She lived in a few locations during her lifetime, but they were all in the same general area.  Remember from the previous posts,  Annie got married in 1895.  Her groom was Amos B. Brackbill.  Later that same year, Annie’s daughter Mabel was born in Whitehorse, according to Martin.  Luckily, we can find her in several census records that tell where she lived over the years.

  • 1900 Census in West Donegal township
  • 1910 Census in East Hempfield township
  • 1920 Census in Salisbury township

In the 1920 census, it’s interesting to note that Mabel, Annie’s daughter, was not working at age 23.  Neither were Annie’s 16 year old and 7 year old sons.  In the early 20th century, many people and organizations were lobbying against child labor.  However, in 1920, according to an NPR article, about 1 in 12 children were employed.  Annie’s family must have been well off enough that the children did not have to work.  That’s quite a difference from Annie’s father, who was likely hired out as a farm worker at age 10. Remember from some earlier posts that some Parmer children worked as young as 9 years old.

Annie and Amos had four children–Mabel, Amos, Elias, and Howard.  Here’s a photo of Mabel and son Amos with, I believe, their grandfather, Amos Brackbill.  The photo is labeled on the back as Amos, Mabel and Amos.  Mabel appears to be no more than five years old, considering that she was about 2 years and 4 months older than her brother Amos.  Their father Amos would have been about 28 years old and their grandfather about 60 years old.  Since the Amos in the photo appears more like a 60 year old than a 28 year old, I believe this is grandfather Amos with his two grandchildren, Mabel and Amos, about the year 1900.

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Mabel was Annie’s only daughter.  She married Martin Wanner, and they farmed, as noted in previous posts.  Here’s a picture of Mabel, Martin, and their son Martin.

Mabel, Martin, and Martin Wanner on their farm. Photo compliments of Martin Wanner.

Father Amos had a blacksmith and mechanics shop in Intercourse, PA.  When he died, his sons continued on the business.  Son Amos continued the mechanic shop in Intercourse, and his sons continued the shop after him.  Son Elias took over the welding portion of the business.  Son Howard took over the mechanic business in Gordonville.

Here’s a couple pictures of advertisers for Brackbill’s Garage.

A Week About Annie–A Widow

In November, of 1928, Annie’s husband, Amos, died of pneumonia at the age of 56.  That must have been a difficult year.  Her youngest son would have been about 15 years old. In the 1930 census, Annie and her son were living in Leacock township with Annie’s daughter, Mabel, who had been married two years. Mabel’s husband, Martin, was a farmer.

A fun note about the 1930 census–it records whether or not there is a radio set in the home.

 

Amos and Annie headstone

Pequea Presbyterian Church Cemetery.  Photo compliments of Ronald P. Scott.

 

 

Pequea Presbyterian Church

Pequea Presbyterian Church.    Photo compliments of Ronald P. Scott.

 

 

A Week About Annie–A Trip To The Movies

Once a week Annie would go to Lancaster.  Sometimes Howard would pick up Annie (or Nancy, if you prefer) and take her to Lancaster.  He’d drop her off and then go pick her up and take her home.  Sometimes she would ride the bus, catching it at Lemon place.  On occasion, she would take her grandson, Martin, with her.  Martin says they would go shopping and get a soda fountain drink.  One time, she took Martin to his first movie–Gone With the Wind.  They walked out of the movie when people in the movie started getting their legs cut off!

 

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Martin, Annie’s grandson, and I in July 2015

 

A Week About Annie–Did She Like Her Name?

That’s a good question!  Do you like your name?  Janet told us that Annie liked to be called Nancy.  Not sure why.  So I recently looked up information on nicknames, and I discovered that Nancy is a nickname for Ann.  But in the census records, she is always listed as Annie.  Seems a bit strange today for someone named Annie to be called Nancy, but it wasn’t so strange for Annie.

She had some very large old photos in frames.  One day she took the photos with her when she left the house, and, when she came home, she didn’t have the photos anymore. No one knows what happened to them, whether she gave them to someone or sold them at the antique shop.

I was really hoping to find a photo of Annie, but she didn’t like pictures.  She was very private.  If you asked her a question about her family or her life, she would wheel around and walk away.  Nevertheless, her family was important to her.  Her kids would come once a year for a little reunion.  And she and Mabel were close, visiting often with each other during the day.

Annie was about 95 years old when she died on May 1, 1972.  She was undoubtedly loved, appreciated, and missed.

 

A Week About Annie–Fireflies!

Annie lived with her daughter, Mabel, in a little apartment at the back of Mabel’s house. So Annie’s grandson, Martin, got to know her very well.

She would tell Martin stories, like the story of the City Mouse and the Country Mouse.  Several versions of the story are online, one of which can be found at this link to the Library of Congress.

The house is still there!  Here’s a few picture, compliments of Ronald P. Scott.

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This is a side view of the house, where you can see the back apartment.

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Behind the house in the last picture is some of the farm land that Mabel’s husband, Martin, farmed.  When I was there, the field was all aglow.  It was on fire with fireflies!  I had never seen fireflies before, and they were truly magical. Ronald was amazed that I had never seen fireflies.  I tried to take a photo of them, but it didn’t turn out too well.  I could have watched them all night!

 

 

 

 

 

A Week About Annie–Meeting Her Grandchildren

One of the greatest joys of family history is meeting and talking with newly found relatives.  When you’ve seen a name for years, and then you meet someone who knew that person, feelings and emotions previously unknown flood your entire being.  It’s hard to describe really.  Then you talk, and out comes the photo books, and it’s like you’ve know the family for years even though you are meeting them for the first time.  You might almost feel like you are sitting where they sat……

I was able to meet several of Annie’s descendants.  And it all started by looking in the phone book.  On my first adventure in July 2015, my newfound cousin, Ronald, called a number in the phone book, and we reached a cousin, James!  He was just a short distance away, so we went to visit him.  Then he sent us to another cousin, Janet, a short distance away.  Then she sent us to another cousin, Martin, a short distance away.  And by the end of the day, we had learned quite a bit about Annie.  What a joy it was to visit so many newfound cousins in one day!

As we sat and talked with Martin about Annie, he said, “Well, you are sitting in her chair.”  What?!  I was sitting where she sat!  That was euphoric.

 

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Annie’s Chair

 

So what did we learn about Annie?  More to come this week….

Do You Remember Your Age?

Do you ever forget how old you are?  I cannot seem to remember my age.  I mean, I know how old I am, give or take a year.  Usually if someone asks my age, I take a minute to calculate it.  Does age matter?  Turning 10 years old matters–your first year of double digits!  Turning 13 years old matters–your first official year as a teen.  At 16 years old, many are allowed to date–definitely an age that matters to a 16 year old.  And 18 years old matters–adulthood!  But after, say, 25 years old, what does it matter?

Young people often want to be older.  And older people often want to be younger.  Will Rogers  is quoted as saying “Eventually you will reach a point when you stop lying about your age and start bragging about it.”

In family history, age can be very important.  When I search Ancestry.com for Mary Smith born in Massachusetts in 1700, over 60,000 records were identified.  Identifying your ancestor might come down to knowing their age, especially if you don’t know their exact birth date.

Annie’s birth date is a little hard to pin down.

As mentioned in the previous post, she is shown in the 1880 census as being 2 years old. Other records show the following:

  • Marriage certificate shows age 21 in April 1895
  • 1900 census shows age as 24
  • 1910 census shows age as 33
  • 1920 census shows age as 40
  • 1930 census shows age as 54
  • 1940 census shows age as 57
  • Social Security Death Index shows birthday of 18 January 1877
  • Funeral program shows birth date of 18 January 1875
  • Headstone says born 1876

via Annie E. Parmer Brackbill (1876 – 1972) – Find A Grave Photos

So from 1880-1895, which is 15 years, her age changed 19 years.  From 1895 to 1900, which is five years, her age changed 3 years.  From 1900 to 1910, her age changed 9 years, which is reasonable depending on when the census was taken.  Then from 1910 to 1920, her age changed 7 years.  From 1920 to 1930, her age changed 14 years.  From 1930 to 1940, her age changed 3 years.  Something’s fishy here!

I feel like the 1880 census, with her age listed at 2 years old, is probably the most reliable.  If we use the Social Security Death Index birthday, she would have been 3 years old at the 1880 census.  That’s pretty close.  In 1895, the year she married, she would have been 17 or 18 years old and probably would have needed parental permission to marry, like some of her sisters who married at that age.  My guess is that, for some reason or another, she couldn’t get that permission and did what was required to get married–change her age.

Of course, for the censuses, whoever gave information to the census taker could have simply given the wrong information.  But I can’t help think that maybe Annie was a little like myself–a person who forgets her age.

What does age matter anyway?

 

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Appreciation to cousin Janet for sharing so much family history with Ronald P. Scott and I when we showed up on her doorstep.